Happy Holidays from Justice4mom!

Last year my holiday wish was for Disney and A&E to stop supporting a vicious wife beater, my father Mike Rinder. And I was blessed! In 2019, Mike Rinder was fired and A&E cancelled his show. That was a Christmas blessing. Fight Domestic abuse and put an end to support of abusive men! Merry Christmas! #HappyHolidays #NoAbuse #LoveNotHate.

#4 - 10 THINGS NO WOMAN SHOULD EVER HAVE TO ENDURE

Hi everybody. This is the fourth of a series of ten videos that are illuminating ten things that a woman should never have to endure.

And this one is covering specifically the subject of dining and how domestic violence has affected that in our family. And what my mother has to now do in order to even just eat because of the violence she endured at the hands of Mike Rinder.

My mom can’t actually lift and hold full glasses of anything. She can’t carry her own coffee or any of that kind of stuff. She’s broken many glasses, actually.

She eats with her left hand. And mostly eats things that she doesn’t have to cut.

Here’s an example. If she goes to a restaurant with some friends or something, she actually can’t order a steak because she can’t cut it and is too embarrassed to ask someone to cut her food. So she always orders food that she can eat with her left hand. Or precut food.

She can’t carry food. So someone else carries it. And it may seem mundane, but it’s also demeaning and it’s embarrassing and it hurts actually when she tries, because she’s trying to be socially acceptable or whatever.

So that’s how she has solved this as a result of the damage caused by Mike Rinder.

So the point is, we might take it for granted, that we can go cut our food but she can’t. And that’s because of the violence and the domestic violence that she has had to live through and we have had to live through at the hands of Mike Rinder.

Thus, I really turn to all the audiences that have supported/watched A&E’s show and allowed them to get away with spreading violence and supporting a man who abuses women. I’m asking you to stop supporting him, that’s all.

And for all of my supporters and the people who have been working with me to raise awareness to end domestic violence—thank you very much.

No woman should ever have to endure violence/hate/pain. Stop supporting men who abuse women.

#3 - 10 THINGS NO WOMAN SHOULD EVER HAVE TO ENDURE

Hi everybody. It’s Taryn with justice4mom. This is our third in a series of ten videos and the ten videos that I’m doing cover ten things no women should have to endure.

Today I am covering the results of abuse and how it affects one in the work place.

Mike Rinder so damaged my mother—permanent damage to her nerves, bones, shoulder and so forth that she had to change her entire life in order to function.

First, it was her right arm that became permanently damaged by Mike Rinder and she is right-handed and not ambidextrous. But now she has to use her left hand because she cannot use the right.

So for example, she set everything in her office to be left-handed. That includes her mouse, which she had to learn how to use left-handed, which took quite a while.

Another example is she can’t put her arm up on a desk, like it won’t go there and it hurts very much. So she worked out a different way in order to write or sign things, which is clip boards. She puts clip boards on her lap, puts her arm over it and then can write without moving her arm.

Also any vibration that goes in my mom’s bones puts the pain level up to unbearable, because vibrations are not good.

So in order to rectify that, she did a lot of research on staplers because they vibrate when you staple. And she found one with a nice feature that you don’t have to put any pressure on it. So, she is able to staple.

All in all, there are things people take for granted. And Mike Rinder’s violence and the damage he created, those things—these little things are the things that make life a little harder and that you have to get around and figure out solutions to because of the damage done by Mike.

But here is my point. How can advertisers in their right mind and in their good conscience, support a man who created this much damage to a woman, a woman who was his wife for over 30 years? Mike Rinder has caused this many ramifications due to his damage and domestic violence—how can they support that?

That’s what I’m not understanding and don’t agree with. And so, for all of you out there that are supporting Mike Rinder, his cohorts, his hate-mongers, stop supporting them. You’re actually contributing to domestic violence and making it ok.

No woman should ever have to endure violence/hate/pain.

Those who do must stop supporting men who abuse women.

Thank you.

Taryn

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